Generational Ministry Opportunities
By
Charles S. Mueller, Sr.
Whether in the singular or
plural the Bible refers to generation(s) over 150 times.
How long is a generation? By one measure of the past it was
the length of time from a man’s birth to the birth of his
oldest son’s first child. A common definition today is
everyone born within a 20-25 year period. By that measure
eighteen generations have developed in America since the
1620s with five generations always commingling: one taking
shape, three on the scene full blown, one fading away. But
that’s no longer true.
Six Generations
A measuring of today’s
generational mix shows that sometime during the 1950s/1960s
another full generation slipped in. Today there are six
generations simultaneously on the scene: one taking shape,
one fading away while four are elbowing each other for their
place in the sun. Together with the birth boundaries of
their generational years the six current generations are:
a. a waning GI Generation (born 1905-1924)
b. Silent Generation (born
1925-1944)
c. Boomers (born 1945-1964)
d. Gen X (born 1965-1984),
e. Millennials (born
1985-2004),
f. a gaining, yet unnamed,
Newest (born 2005-2024)
Most congregations are
unaware of this significant change in the number of extant
generations. That sixth generation slipped in not only
unannounced but unnoticed .
Generational Needs
Generational demands and
needs radically differ one from another. It’s like a sixth
person showing up for a carefully planned meal when you had
prepared for only five. Result? Things get crowded and
competition for attention and food rears its heard. Parish
generations that feel ignored wander off -- sometime to
another corner of the larger church; sometime to the “far
country” which lured the prodigal in Jesus’ Luke 15
parable.
To further exacerbate this
situation our oldest generations are now living longer and
in larger numbers than at any time in Lutheran history. By
their very existence these “super-seniors” affect not only
the congregations Sunday morning but its weekday activities
as well. Their needs are straining community, church and
family resources. But that’s another story.
For now our clear Biblical
mandate is to pass on His message of mercy and grace from
generation to generation. That mandate calls for two very
different actions: 1) we are to share His Word and will
within each generation and, 2) see to it that it is shared
between all generations. We are called to minister inter-
and intra-generationally.
The struggle for
generational recognition that has stumbled along within the
church is readily acknowledged by the secular world and
shown by how products are presented and promoted in print,
radio, TV and the internet -- and to whom they are aimed.
Have you noticed the change? What’s more, generational
concerns are at the heart of the current debate about
governmental health care. Everyone seems to recognize
distinct generational segmentation. But the church?
The Lutheran church has
historically lavished most of our care on one generation,
our youngest. The assumption has been that once our
children are properly reared they will remain active within
the Christian community. There does not seem to be evidence
to fully support that assumption, which is not to suggest
that we should care less about the young. Instead we should
intentionally focus on life long needs of all generations by
responding to all five post-adolescent generations as they
move, intact, through life’s stages.
Life Stages
Life stages? Did you say
stages? Yes, indeed. Generations, always intact and in
constant motion, move through life stages. They move
“through” because life stages are static. They don't move.
Instead its each generation that moves through those
successive life stages. As they do they can react
differently from each other at each stage. That’s why
ministerial programs that were effective in the past can be
totally ineffective a generation or two later.
The succession of life
stages follows this broad pattern with some variation: early
childhood, childhood, adolescence, young adult years,
periods of family and career growth, peak vocational years,
empty nesting, pre-retirement, the go-go/slow-go/no-go later
year. There are differences within these stages depending
on gender and marital circumstance.
As a specific, have you
noticed that many congregations pay scant attention to the
needs of the GI and Silent Generations except to view them
as a mother lode for volunteers and financial support? What
many need much more is assistance working through questions
of personal care, worth, service and life direction. And
that’s to say nothing about the needs of their care-givers
and the sandwich generations.
All Six
The LCMS, both nationally
and parish-by-parish, needs to recognize and respond to the
six generations in its membership as each, even now, works
through a half dozen and more life stages. Any convention
action that ignores that challenge, whether in areas of
doctrine or practice, will in time realize to their chagrin
that they have squandered a significant opportunity.
And we all know how often
most opportunity knocks.